No discussion, no recriminations.
A prayer for the souls who lost their lives, the injured and the bereaved. May they find peace.
No discussion, no recriminations.
A prayer for the souls who lost their lives, the injured and the bereaved. May they find peace.
Even though I do not buy many gifts it can still be a challenge to find the perfect gift. I try to make choices that fit with my values and will be truly appreciated by the recipient.
This year The Duke and I have agreed that we are not buying ‘stuff’ for each other and that our trip to the USA was our gift to each other.
Belle, Missy and my immediate family will receive a combination of money, home-made goodies and Oxfam Unwrapped gifts. These are well worth checking out if you are not familiar with the concept.

Miss O and Izz have more than enough toys and clothes so I bought them each a special Christmas ornament when we were overseas and also a couple of cloth badges. I have recently given them the camp blankets which belonged to Belle and Missy when they were younger and collected badges. Their main gifts are experiences rather than stuff – tickets to shows. I will take Izz to see a stage production of Hairy McLary and Miss O to see Chitty Chitty Bang Bang. These will both be in January and I am really looking forward to sharing the joy with each of them.

At work our team (about 10 of us) used to do a Secret Santa but a couple of years ago we all agreed that it was really unnecessary and we would make a donation to World Vision using their gift catalogue. We have lots of fun choosing what animals we will ‘buy’.
I feel that my gift-giving will not just add more stuff to people’s lives but make a positive contribution in several ways. It has also meant that I have no need to spend hours trawling the malls with a million other stressed shoppers so I am happy about that, too.
“Cherishing what you have, not want, is the key to contentment” So runs the headline to an article on page 4 of today’s Courier Mail, Brisbane’s daily newspaper. What a revelation!!
So the mainstream media are beginning to pick up on what many of us already know, you cannot buy happiness.
Will we begin to see people trying to outdo each other in the simplicity stakes – sort of a reverse ‘keeping up with the Joneses’ or will they really understand that simplicity takes a range of guises and it is definitely not a competition?
Is voluntary simplicity the realm of those who can afford to make the choice?
Let me know what you think of this article.
I would also like to say a huge welcome to those of you who have visited today because of the link Rhonda posted at Down to Earth. I hope you will find something here that is of interest and that you consider coming back and perhaps joining as a follower.
Have a great weekend, whatever you are doing.
There are all sorts of things that you can make to measure. Clothes are just one of them.
Today I modified a game so that is more suitable for our granddaughters. Miss O is keen to play a game of ‘Animal Memory’ which we have had since our children were small. There are 36 pairs of matching cards which feature adult and baby animals which need to be matched up. She manages quite well, however, tends to lose interest after a while so I have decided to modify it slightly.
I sorted the cards and selected 18 pairs for each set and placed them in ziplock bags. We now have 2 smaller versions of the game. These can be combined later on if we choose.
This also means that we can play 2 games concurrently.
Have you got any tips for making games or activities more age appropriate?
Time to put the tree up.
Miss O and Izz with everything ready to start.
We had to learn how to assemble the pieces.
Then there were all of the decorations to put on, but finally it was done.
Tonight we went to see some Christmas lights. There was lots of wonder as we took it all in.
It is a real joy to share the delight of Christmas with children. Do you have any particular activities or traditions that you do every year?
This morning when I took the rubbish bins up to the roadside this is the scene that greeted me.
We live on a quiet, semi-rural road and our driveway is opposite a minor road junction. The rubbish truck does not go down the side road so each rubbish collection day the bins from the side road and a few surrounding properties are lined up on the verge near our driveway.
This morning one bin was open and several items were scattered around. I am not sure how this happened but I know that with the automated collection of the ‘wheelie’ bins the remnants would be left behind. I grabbed a bag, collected up the loose items and put them in the bin. This ensured that we were not left with a mess on the verge.
Here is the same scene a few minutes later. It is a small but worthwhile job and keeps the area clean and tidy. Much better than whinging about the rubbish lying on the footpath.
I have started to get my Christmas list which was in my head, down on paper. It is not a list of what I want but a list of Christmas related activities and tasks. I need to check that nothing gets forgotten.
Over the last few years it has become an unwritten rule that nothing overtly Christmassy happens until after 3rd December. The significance of this is that it is Miss O’s birthday and I think that it is important to be able to focus on her special day and not let it become overwhelmed in the lead-up to Christmas. Our darling turned 5 yesterday so has the adventure of starting Prep and the whole new world of school next year.
But back to the list…………
Plan menu for Christmas lunch
Put up Christmas tree
Finish Christmas letter
Write Christmas cards and post
Finish hand-made gifts
Check gifts complete for immediate family
Take granddaughters to see Christmas lights
Check for carol service appropriate for granddaughters
I am sure there will be other things to add to the list but that is the main focus for us.
Christmas lunch will be for 4 adults and 4 children (aged 6, 5, 5 and 3). It will be gluten-free/ grain-free (in line with my eating plan). I will write more about this in another post.
The Christmas tree will go up on Saturday afternoon when Miss O and Izz are here.
I need to get serious about finishing the Christmas letter which is half-written. Many of our Christmas greeting are sent via email but I would like to get the cards in the mail by the middle of next week.
The gifts are an ongoing project which is coming along nicely. I think I have planned gifts for everyone – just need to check the box in the spare room again. Nothing is wrapped yet. In fact, I will not be wrapping gifts this year as I have made re-useable gift bags in assorted sizes from Christmas fabric. I won’t miss the piles of ripped wrapping paper all over the floor on Christmas morning.
We will be going the see the Christmas lights on Saturday evening when our granddaughters come to stay. Once I find the time and date of the carol service I will organise to go with Miss O and Izz.
Writing everything down helps to clarify exactly what I need to do and when. We have a fairly simple, low-key Christmas which is naturally focused on enjoying it with the children.
Over the next week or so I will post about each of the things on my list in more detail.
When do you start your Christmas preparations? How are you going? Please share your plans.
The sewing extravaganza continued last night. I cut out and made another skirt. The fabric came to me from the stash of an elderly lady and I suspect it is quite old as it is only 90cm (36 inches) wide which is definitely not the norm these days. It is very fine and 100% cotton. I have fully lined the skirt yet it is still light and very comfortable which is good since it is going to be 33C here today.
I have been busy with my sewing today and wanted to show you what I have done.
This morning I started on the blouse which I cut out earlier in the week. I was on target to have it completely finished today, however, the sewing machine decided to misbehave. The automatic buttonhole function is not working, I do not know what the problem is and have tried all of the usual trouble-shooting ideas – re-thread the machine, reset the buttonhole settings, clean the bobbin case etc but all to no avail. I will have to ring the sewing machine shop tomorrow.
In the meantime, here is a sneak preview of the blouse. It is all done except for the buttons and buttonholes.
The next project is another skirt but I decided to have a short break from making new things and set about repairing/refashioning this bag.
This bag belongs to my daughter and it previously had rope handles which were knotted on the inside. The holes were finished with large eyelets, however, one of the eyelets had pulled away from the fabric. In order to repair the bag I removed all of the eyelets and made new handles.
I used some scraps of chocolate brown fabric which was lurking in my stash. I had to join a couple of pieces together to get enough length for the handles. The straps are double-stitched to allow for heavy weights that may be carried in the bag. You can still see the eyelets holes on the inside but all in all it is a functional bag again. It is great to be able to give items a new lease of life.
I have been making good progress on several fronts here.
Yesterday I spent the day sewing so have something to show for it. I started by drafting a pattern using an existing purchased skirt. I had some fabric that had been given to me and this is what I created. I have yet to do the hem and the handstitching inside the waistband but you get the general idea. I am not entirely happy with the fit over the hips and also the side pockets are not sitting perfectly but that will improved on in the next attempt.
I will still be happy to wear this as the shirt I am going to make will cover the less than perfect area. This is going to be the top (also gifted fabric). The colour match of the yellow flowers with the top is much better than the photograph would lead you to believe.
The other project has been slowly but surely working through the various piles of ‘pending’ paperwork.
This is some that I had been carrying around in my bag for a couple of weeks. Today I actioned most of it – emails sent, phone calls made and most of it now shredded. There is still a little to go back in the filing cabinet.
This pile is on the small table in the guest room. It is mostly from our USA trip from over 2 months ago so my goal is to get it sorted out this weekend. I have finally culled and sorted they photographs from our trip which has been quite a big job.
Tomorrow we are having lunch with friends and are looking forward to sharing the photos from our trip with them.
Have a relaxing weekend wherever you are.